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In Neuro Linguistic Programming, otherwise known as NLP, emphasises that within the first seven years of a person’s existence on planet earth our personalities are formed; of which is then verified later through tests and indicators such as Myers-Briggs; needless to say an individual can control and amend their personality through NLP. This then leads to the modeling phase and ultimately the socialisation period begins - the integral time of our lives between the ages of 7-14 where we want to fit into social situations, and be part of the ‘in’ crowd at parties and other social settings including school.
People do things to avoid pain and to gain pleasure, and as an abundance and prosperity coach, certified NLP Practitioner and Quit Cigarettes in 60 minutes specialist hypnotherapist, this is so prominent; especially in the socialisation period. We don’t want to feel left out in social situations; regardless as to whether we are introverted or extroverted; our needs for fitting in and not being teased and picked on are prominent, and so we take risks to gain approval and social acceptance - especially in our teenage years at school.
The most common of these risks is to start smoking cigarettes. Through my Quit Cigarettes in 60 minutes sessions in particular; the most common response I receive from my clients when I ask them when they first started smoking cigarettes; almost all of them would say they started smoking in the ‘socialisation’ period as a result of peer pressure and not being left out in social situations; as well as to avoid bad feelings. Chances are your still smoking and you really want to quit. My revolutionary Quit Cigarettes in 60 minutes hypnotherapy sessions address these issues by talking directly to your unconscious mind, and thus re-programming you to become a non-smoker - a clean fresh air breathing person for the rest of your abundant life.
In NLP one of the prime directives of your unconscious mind is to protect you, and since chances are you started smoking during the socialisation period even though your well and truly an adult now; regardless as to which age group category you fall into; your unconscious mind in this regard is still stuck back at the time you started smoking; predominantly back between the ages of 14-21 in the integral socialisation period. You have definitely changed significantly since this period; however your unconscious or non-conscious mind is still stuck at the time you still started smoking because by doing so; this all powerful mind that never sleeps thinks it is still protecting you by keeping you a smoker - this could not be further from the truth.
To really want to quit cigarettes you need to have a burning desire to be a non-smoker and for the first time enjoy a rich fulfilling life of health and vitality; not to mention access to many more resources to be healthy and full of life because that is the new command you are putting out into the universe once you stop smoking for good. When you first started smoking cigarettes you had to light up the cigarette and place that cigarette in your mouth consciously; meaning that you had to carefully work through the steps and light up and smoke a few cigarettes. Once this pattern is reinforced your smoking cigarettes has not become an addiction but rather a habit - a powerful one at that indeed.
It is not your fault that you are still smoking cigarettes despite your best efforts of wanting to quit cigarettes for good. Smoking cigarettes for the first time is no different than learning how to drive a car. Thinking back to the time when you had to learn to drive a car, again there were a lot of steps involved from putting the key in the engine to starting the accelerator; to parking at the kerb and so on. Today however you now drive a car with ease and mainly on autopilot - that’s right you are driving the car unconsciously as you now talk on your mobile phone and listen to music simultaneously - even in peak hour traffic - your starting to get the picture. This is why you have been frustrated when you have tried to quit smoking cigarettes in the past by chewing gum, wearing patches and trying nicotine replacement therapy to only name a few ways a person can stop smoking.
All is definitely not lost, and through integrating NLP with advanced hypnosis, your powerful habit of smoking cigarettes will be over and done with for good in only 60 minutes utilising a revolutionary system that is currently enjoying a 95.6% success rate of all clients quitting at the end of only one session with myself. The other 5% or so of clients need only one more session, and their powerful habit of smoking cigarettes has been taken care of for good. Again for this to really work you must want to quit smoking cigarettes. Want portrays a definiteness of purpose. Let’s take the analogy of being at a party. Now you and I both know that at parties there is usually an abundant supply of food available. You eat, and eat and the mechanisms of your body then sends you a message to stop eating once you are full and have literally stuffed yourself with food, and yet at parties many people keep eating despite these signals coming from their body telling them to stop eating right this second. Such individuals should stop eating to not get sick, however these people do not want to stop eating. There are reasons and excuses for everything. The same goes for smoking cigarettes. Smoking cigarettes is simply an unconscious habit which I will break for you and have broken for many different people from all walks of life to date. In NLP there are no un-resourceful people and only un-resourceful states, and yes people do really do the best with the resources they have available. Hence why it is clearly not your fault that you are still a smoker and you do not want to be.
In NLP what is referred to as the ‘critical faculty’ is a barrier between your conscious, rational goal setting and thinking part of the mind, and between your unconscious and non-conscious mind trying to preserve your mind and body. My clients prior to them quitting smoking through my methodologies were smoking on average 20 cigarettes a day, and inhaled about 10 puffs of nicotine from each cigarette into their bloodstream for each cigarette smoked…now you can see that as a smoker you are continuously reinforcing this pattern of bringing a cigarette to your mouth and inhaling that cigarette, as well as bringing it back down at least 200 times a day unconsciously. Seriously, what else do you do at least 200 times a day unconsciously a day apart from breathing? Nothing else at all, absolutely.
This is also predominantly why you are still a smoker and you really want to quit. My sessions also help you and want you to discover why you want to really stop smoking; because without a big enough why this powerful damaging habit will continue while taking at least 14 years off your precious, abundant life taking away at last $100,000 out of your pocket. Imagine all the great things you can do when you book in an appointment and make that important decision to become a non-smoker, a fresh clean air breathing person for the rest of your abundant life? You life will open up to you more magnificently - the universe will be back on your side as you are healing and helping yourself as opposed to harming yourself. You deserve to be prosperous, healthy and not left out in social situations and cut off from the rest of the world. I invite you to contact me to break this powerful habit of smoking cigarettes for good...because most importantly you deserve infinite abundance and freedom away from cigarettes!!
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Dear Readers,
Correction: the modeling period in NLP is between the ages of 7-14, and the socialisation period is between the ages of 14-21 as per the first paragraph. Apologies and many thanks - Justine