Beverley De La Harpe
A loving and harmonious relationship is the most precious thing you can own in this world.
Relationships & Couples Counselling
Bring Love and Harmony Back to Your Relationship
Are you tired of the ceaseless rows you’ve been having with your partner, siblings or parents? You don’t have to put up with this ordeal forever. Beverley De La Harpe provides counselling in Perth WA to people struggling in their relationships due to lack of communication or discord in values.
Everyone has a unique family that establishes their set of beliefs and values from the time they were born. These values and belief systems are reflected in the way they communicate with others.
Communication is vital in every relationship, for without it people won’t be able to reach a compromise and live harmoniously. Every relationship has its goals. You must know what to expect from the person you’re in a relationship with and how to deliver their own expectations from you.
We are by nature drawn to people who share our values and beliefs. The values instilled in you by your family shape your identity and serve as your basis for trusting and building rapport with other people.
If you’re confused about your identity and unsure as to what you can bring to your relationship, you will find trust, honesty, understanding and kindness elusive.
To foster a healthy relationship, you must determine what really matters to you. Talk to Beverley and let her guide you towards improving your relationships with others and, ultimately, the quality of your life.
In a couples counselling, you can let out your resentment, sorrow and other pent-up feelings towards your relationship, and not be judged for it.
This type of therapy offers a safe and nurturing space where you can cultivate effective communication techniques that will support your relationship.
Whether you attend a session with Beverley with your partner or on your own, you will reap many benefits as couples counselling aims to enlighten your mind and help you see your situation from a new perspective.
Benefits of Couples Counselling
- Refines your communication strategies
- Raises self-awareness
- Helps you develop healthy and happy relationships
- Improves your concentration
Learning to Use the Loving ‘Us’ Rather Than the Hurting ‘Me’ and ‘You’
We tend to get frustrated, hurt or angry when other people don’t seem to understand how we feel. These negative feelings, when not addressed immediately, may put a strain on our relationships.
In addition, overthinking our situation and taking everything way too personally weakens our concentration abilities and hampers our happiness.
Focusing too much on your negative emotions hinder you from communicating effectively as you tend to misconstrue what other people are saying. What’s more, you won’t be able to ask the appropriate questions that will lead to the perfect solution for your problem.
In her couples counselling sessions, Beverley shows you how to approach your relationship differently to produce a positive outcome. She incorporates a variety of tools such as neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) to help you develop supportive habits and beliefs that will benefit you and your partner.
Book an appointment and start viewing your relationship with fresh eyes.